My Mum’s helper
requested to have her eyes checked in early December last year. I was about to
head off to a splendid job in KL when my Mum booked me in to see Dr Peter Kong
as well. I didn’t expect any bad news even though the last time I had my eyes
checked was a few years ago. All I had wanted was a pair of new glasses and/or
a pair of blue contacts for Christmas. It was not to be. I was sent by the
ophthalmologist to a GP (General Practitioner) with the same surname because my
blood pressure was through the roof!
We found out soon
enough that I was in real bad shape. Dr Kong – GP from Damai told me that I was a flight risk and I
ended up kissing that new job goodbye. Once my blood pressure came down quite a
bit, I returned to Dr Peter Kong who then told me that I needed laser surgery
(PRP) to save my sight. I didn’t take him seriously because I really didn’t
believe that there was anything seriously wrong with me. My Mum, on the other
hand, took the news almost too seriously. She had many sleepless nights
afterwards. At one stage during the second consultation, Dr Peter Kong took out
his stethoscope to listen to my heart. That was quite funny because I have
never seen an ophthalmologist using a stethoscope. I told him, “I am pretty
sure that the ticker is still ticking.” Before I walked out, he asked me to
prepare myself psychologically for the procedure.
Not knowing what PRP was, I began to imagine all sorts
of horrible scenarios. I even thought that it had something to do with Karma
because I once said something quite mean to a Paralympian with vision
impairment. I was pretty scared that something might go wrong and I ended up
blind in Sabah! Imagine being disabled in Malaysia! I ended up googling PRP to
learn a bit more and prayed nightly. We even went to the Carmelite sisters to
ask them to pray for me. I was calm and ready on the eve of the first
treatment.
Originally, I was expected to undergo the procedure
three times because I am a squeamish patient. The doctor changed his mind after
the first treatment because I was super. I was able to see clearer two days
later but I also noticed that I had become a little ‘slow’. I was quite
sensitive to changes to light. Two weeks after the first procedure, I was back
at the little ‘torture chamber’ and sat on the same little stool for my last
session. I rest my chin on the machine. The doctor secured my head with straps,
placed that eye piece thingy into one eye before blasting me with strong beams
from his side of the ‘machine gun’. It did get a little unpleasant at times but
I was OK. After a little while, my mind wandered off. I was wondering if anyone
could make the whole process more interesting by turning it into some kind of
video game when the Doctor asked me to open my eye. I truly thought that my
left eye was open but it wasn’t! Did I fall asleep? Is it possible? LOL
During the first procedure, Dr Kong asked me, “Do you
like living in Sabah?” I replied flatly, “No!” It was a childish response. Yes,
there are many things that I do not like right now but I think that I will
accept the differences in time to come. I just need time to love my ‘new’ life.
It is so different to over there. Altruism was one principle that I thought was
dead because everyone is just so busy trying to make a living but Dr Kong
showed me that altruism is still alive! A week after my final procedure, a
receptionist from his clinic called to ask us to cancel the check. She was
speaking in Malay and I got quite confused. My Mum later confirmed that we
didn’t need to pay. The whole thing was FREE. I felt weird receiving such a
gift. I wondered whether my Mum secretly told him about what happened to me and
he pitied me. I wondered for many weeks as to why I was the recipient of such
an expensive gift.
Dr Peter Kong is the ophthalmologist to many members
of my extended family. My father was his patient. My Mum is too. My Mum’s
cousin in Melbourne even flies here to see him even though he has access to
Aussie doctors. When you wait at his waiting room, you will hear that many of
his patients are from Sandakan. Sometimes they come straight from the airport
with luggage in tow.
Fred Hollows was a famous ophthalmologist who restored
the sight of countless people. There is something that Fred said in the ads for
The Fred Hollows Foundation that I really like. “Every eye is an eye, when you
are doing the surgery there that is just as important as if you were doing eye
surgery on the prime minister or the king.”
Update: I recently went to see Doctor Kong for a
follow up. He was extremely busy that day. He gave me the good news because my
eyes have healed. My next appointment will be in October.
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